Celibacy
Summary
The state of remaining unmarried, which Jesus taught may be a special calling for some who devote themselves wholly to the kingdom of heaven.
☩Jesus's Teaching
When the disciples suggested it might be better not to marry given Jesus's teaching on divorce, He explained that celibacy is not for everyone but only for those to whom it is given. He identified three categories: those born unable to marry, those made eunuchs by men, and those who voluntarily remain unmarried 'for the kingdom of heaven's sake.' This last group voluntarily abstains from marriage to serve God more fully.
☩Paul's Counsel
Paul wrote extensively on this subject, expressing his personal preference for the unmarried state while acknowledging that marriage is good and honorable. He counseled that the unmarried can give undivided attention to pleasing the Lord, while the married necessarily have their attention divided between spouse and divine service. However, he strongly affirmed that those who cannot exercise self-control should marry.
☩Warning Against Mandatory Celibacy
Paul warned that in later times some would depart from the faith, giving heed to deceiving spirits and forbidding to marry. This indicates that imposed celibacy, as distinct from voluntary celibacy for the sake of service, was viewed negatively. Marriage remains honorable in all, and those who command abstinence from it teach a doctrine of demons.
References
- 1.John McClintock and James Strong, "Celibacy," in Cyclopedia of Biblical, Theological and Ecclesiastical Literature, vol. II (Harper & Brothers, 1867–1887).
- 2.James Hastings (ed.), "Celibacy," in Dictionary of Christ and the Gospels, vol. I (T. & T. Clark, 1906–1908).